When Matthew Timion needed to get his son treatment for mental illness, he did not anticipate it would be so hard to get the insurance company to pay for it.
Timion adopted his son out of foster care when he was 3. He says the trauma and neglect his son experienced in his early childhood led to mental health issues later in life.
At age 10, Timion鈥檚 son began to act out aggressively and threaten violence. At one point, Timion was bringing his son to an inpatient psychiatric hospital in the Chicago area every few weeks.
At times, the insurance company and the hospital staff disagreed over whether treatment was necessary.
鈥淗e was cutting himself and he鈥檚 hearing voices and he is threatening to run away and kill me,鈥� Timion says. 鈥淭he insurance company says, 鈥榃ell, he hasn鈥檛 done that in three or four days now, he鈥檚 good to go home.鈥� And the hospital said, 鈥楴o, he has to stay.鈥欌€�
Timion filed multiple appeals and won. But months later, when his son needed even more costly residential treatment, Timion almost relinquished parental custody to force the state to step in and pay for treatment he couldn鈥檛 afford.
But data from Illinois shows not all parents can navigate insurance for their children like Timion. Dozens of children a year when parents run out of options for getting them the mental health care they need.
Fundamentally, this issue of who pays for mental health treatment comes down to a law that requires insurance companies to cover mental health care at the same level as other medical conditions.
The Complicated Battle For Coverage
To get an insurance company to pay for a claim they鈥檝e denied, patients can file an appeal. But if the internal reviewer鈥攁 medical doctor employed by the insurance company鈥攁grees the treatment isn鈥檛 needed, the patient has to pay the bill.
When this happened to Timion, he appealed to the that regulates insurers. The case was reviewed by a psychiatrist, who determined Timion鈥檚 son needed to be at the hospital, and the insurance company, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois, must pay for it.
鈥淪o in our case it worked out,鈥� Timion says. 鈥淢ost people don鈥檛 have the tenacity to go through this process,鈥� especially if they鈥檙e in the middle of a crisis with their child."
A 2015 survey from the National Alliance on Mental Illness suggests Timion鈥檚 experience is not unique.
NAMI across the country about their experience with private insurers, and found that people seeking coverage for mental health services report being denied at a rate double those wanting coverage for other medical services.
Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois declined an interview but sent a statement saying the level of care they cover for group, individual and family health insurance policies is based on medical necessity, which includes looking at national guidelines and the needs of individual members. For members who receive health coverage through a government-sponsored program, BCBSIL says coverage is determined by the state or the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services.
Laws On The Books
Ten years ago, Congress the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act. It requires most insurance companies to cover mental illness on par with other medical issues.
But the law doesn鈥檛 require insurers to cover all mental health treatments. Rather, they must demonstrate they cover mental and physical health equally.
David Lloyd, national senior policy adviser for the mental health advocacy group the , says insurance companies have made some progress toward compliance with parity laws. They no longer charge higher deductibles or have stricter limits on mental health services. But potential violations include denying coverage they deem unnecessary.
John Foley, CEO of Benefit Consulting Group in Northbrook, Ill., says during a time of rising health care costs, insurers don鈥檛 want to spend money on expensive treatments that aren鈥檛 absolutely needed.
Foley says hypothetically, if an insurance company is asked to pay for a mental health treatment that will cost $600,000, they want to know: 鈥淚s there another way to treat this, to handle it for $75,000 and get the same outcome?鈥�
Part of the challenge is that what鈥檚 medically necessary is sometimes up for debate, says Foley. If someone breaks a bone, they need a cast. But with issues pertaining to mental health, it鈥檚 not always as clear-cut.
Foley says there are also financial incentives on both sides: Providers make more money on expensive treatments, while insurers save money by denying that same care.
鈥淧roviders are not angels and neither are the payers. I just want to make that clear,鈥� Foley says. 鈥淣either side is, shall we say, virtuous.鈥�
Stepping Up Enforcement
Advocates say regulators need to step up and do a better job enforcing existing laws so that the burden doesn鈥檛 fall to patients in crisis鈥攐r their families鈥攖o battle insurers when mental health coverage gets denied.
In recent years, state and federal regulators have taken steps to improve compliance with parity laws.
A 2014 investigation led by Eric Schneiderman uncovered numerous parity violations by private insurers, resulting in that forced the companies to return millions of dollars to consumers. In and again in , the state of California fined Kaiser Permanente for failing to provide members with timely access to mental health care.
In Illinois, where Timion is, Governor Bruce Rauner recently signed into law advocates say will enable greater enforcement of parity laws by increasing transparency and accountability for health plans.
Lloyd says Illinois now has the strictest mental health parity laws in the country, and he hopes other states will follow suit.
The Price Of Coverage Denial
Mental health coverage denials can have dire consequences on families.

When Timion鈥檚 son was hospitalized again at age 13, doctors said it wasn鈥檛 safe for him to return home. He needed to go to a residential treatment center to receive 24/7 care, which can cost up to $200,000 a year.
Timion鈥檚 insurance company said they would cover one month. But many facilities won鈥檛 accept a patient without proof of payment for at least six months, which Timion did not have.
While his son remained at the psychiatric hospital, Timion says he spent eight hours a day for more than a month on the phone with his insurance company, state agencies, even lawmakers, trying to figure out how to pay for residential treatment.
Thanks to a family connection with a mental health facility nearby, Timion moved his son from the hospital into residential treatment. The month covered by his insurance company ran out, but he convinced the child welfare agency to cover treatment until a would kick in to pay for the remainder of his son鈥檚 treatment.
鈥淢ental health care is not treated the same way as cancer or anything else,鈥� Timion says. 鈥淪o people have to go through these ridiculous hoops鈥� to get treatments covered.
The Kennedy Forum鈥檚 David Lloyd says Timion鈥檚 story is an example of why it鈥檚 in states鈥� best interests to ensure parity laws are enforced.
鈥淐osts are going to be picked up by taxpayers in one way or another,鈥� he says.
A Father鈥檚 Worry
Timion鈥檚 son is now 15 and just moved home to Illinois after a year-and-a-half at another residential facility in Missouri.
His son is doing much better, Timion says, but there鈥檚 still a long road ahead.
鈥淧arenting never stops,鈥� Timion says. 鈥淚n his case, it鈥檚 just a lot harder.鈥�
He worries about parents who aren鈥檛 able to access mental health treatment for their child.
鈥淢ost of the parents I talk to, they鈥檙e looking at their kids ending up in jail soon, or dead,鈥� Timions says. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 just how bad the behaviors are getting.鈥�
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